Deattached Attachment
Are you in a good relationship with your ex-boss who fired you ? Are you in talking terms with the girl who left you ? Are you maintaining rapport with the guy who sold you a high premium gym membership when compared to your friend ? Are you maintaining the healthy sprite with your competitor(s)? Are you maintaining camaraderie with the person who is always denying your ideas or giving free advise ? We always judge people based on their actions and not on their intent.Separating a person from his/her behavior is the most difficult thing to do. We need courage and compassion to do that. Compassion not for others but compassion for oneself.Owning one's story and loving oneself through that process is the bravest thing that one will ever do. The more one is emotional involved, the more courage he/she needs. Glad that I went through the breakdown spiritual awakening process. Not that I mastered the art but holding the relationships one at a time by gaining an ounce of cou...