Omen Vs Hurdle

When should one consider a difficulty as a Omen or a Hurdle ? Or Is the question about How ? Let me elucidate my question more clearly. Consider a scenario where you wanted "something." In the process of achieving that something you are welcomed with bunch of difficulties or setbacks. Do you consider those difficulties a bad Omen and give up what you wanted or you consider the difficulties a hurdle and cross it to get what you wanted? Whatever you chose you cannot UNDO it. You have to live with it. That's irony of the life.

The choice becomes even more difficult depending upon the intensity of the something you want and the costly risk residing beside that something. Adding to this there would be fear of failure, different opinions, one's own limitations, social pressures and finally sarcasm. How do we go about this?

If we sit and think about it , we will break our heads. If we talk with the people about it we will be bombarded with different views like be optimistic ,be realist blah blah blah. Then how do we address the choice especially when we are facing difficulties in achieving what we wanted. Should we take it as a Omen(sign) or as a Hurdle ?

I guess there is no hard and soft rule about it. Or Am I missing something. It depends on how do we look at it.There would be a problem if we think there is a problem.My experiences thought me what I feel like a problem is not problem to somebody. That somebody will go easy about it while I break my head in solving the problem.

Finally is it Omen or hurdle? I guess it depends on one self and one's experiences in life.When there is fear everything appears like bad omen and when there is confidence everything appears like good omen and when there is hope everything appears like a hurdle. Whatever may be the result of the choice, one should be ready to embrace it and move on.Regretting is what we shouldn't be doing in our life.